I have realized that even without a dime in our pockets we my family and I can have fun for special moments in our lives like on the 7th of July it was our 9th wedding anniversary . My hubby cooked me a great steak and we had a fabulous meal and watched some comedy shows on netflix and laughed and laughed . I know that no matter what comes our way we have each other and god who comes first and the children in our lives that depend on us and thrive because we love them so . They may not always like me but they know I love them more than anything besides my master god . Well all is well here and my kids are coming for a visit hopefully on Friday for about a week or two then back to grandmothers for a few days school starts August 26 and we have alot to do before we are ready